J.A.
Well, my 18 month old basically brushes the same way, though it is one of his favorite things to do . He really likes the weleda natural baby toothpaste, we just put the tiniest amount and he kind of wiggles the brush around his mouth and sucks on the brush. than I put water on the brush and he" rinses", He doesn't know to spit it out yet, maybe this is fine, baby toothpaste isn't that concentrated and I think that as long as there is some cleaning going on thats good. Since she is wiggling the brush around, It sounds like she is getting her teeth and gums clean . We always sing a silly brushing song , same one everytime, and he spaces out on a poster above the sink, maybe you can put something for her to look at while she brushes to keep her there longer.