Boy, do I sympathize with you. I had gall stones/gall bladder attacks for a very long time. I used to take a very hot shower and just let the water hit where it hurt. However, that only lasted for a while. Eventually for me, nothing took the pain away.
I didn't have insurance so I lived with gall stones for a couple years. I could pretty much keep the attacks under control by eating bland food. High fat, fried and spicy foods would trigger me...espcially pizza and Mexican food.
So, I would suggest eating smaller meals more frequently and keep it mild. Foods that seemed to not bother me were eggs, cheese and crackers.
Ask your doctor about the following:
Essential fatty acid complex- Important constituent of every living cell. Needed for repair and prevention of gallstones.
Lecithin granules or capsules- A fat emulsifier;aids in digestion of fats (Apples have lecithin)
I have now read in case of an attack, drink 1 tablespoon of apple cider vinegar in a glass of apple juice. This should relieve the pain fairly quickly. eat applesause,yogurt,cottage cheese, apples and stay away from red meat as much as possible.
Hope this helps. Best wishes!