L.C.
First, let me introduce myself. I am a conventionally trained MD who has studied alternative medicine since 1999. Most of the people who responded to your question do not understand acidity/alkalinity. Neither does your conventionally trained pediatrition. Most health problems start because of what we give our babies, both through stress in utero, through medicines in breastmilk and then the foods that are recommended at an early age. What I am about to tell you will contradict some of the information you have already received. You will have to assimilate all the information, and then I recommend for you to pray about it. Then go with what God tells you in your spirit. If health is the direction your baby is supposed to go, then you will pick the right path. If it is some other direction, you will pick that path. Don't blame yourself for the consequences. Each of us has a purpose for the path we take--a purpose to serve God and get close to Him, even if our path isn't so great.
Our American diet is way too acidic. If your baby was born with severe acid reflux, this tells me that your diet is way too acidic to start with, and you had a tremendous amount of stress in your life while you were pregnant. Your baby is a parasite at first, inside you, and lives in the environment you give it. If we are acidic, the body tries to get rid of the acid. The stomach is an appropriate way, through increasing the pH there. But this happens when the kidneys are overwhelmed and can't get rid of the acids correctly.
Your baby needs a more alkaline diet (as opposed to comments you have already received from others). I do agree with the addition of a probiotic, but I will explain that later. Bananas and apples are both alkalizing in the body. They need to be ripe, however, and the apples should be golden delicious for the most benefit. The ones in the baby food jars might not be as alkalizing as fresh. You can mash your own bananas and apples. Greens (turnip, collards, kale, and spinach) are highly alkalizing, but make sure they are organic to avoid pesticides. Potatoes (sweet more than white) are alkaizing. Most all vegetables are alkalizing except for peas and carrots which are slightly acidifying. The absolute worst foods are the ones you are told to feed first--the grains (cereals), which are highly acidifying. Also sugar. PLEASE do not introduce your baby to soft drinks. Even if you look at books on acid/base balance, you will get conflicting information. This is because it is hard to tell what a food does inside the body. Their acidity/alkalinity outside the body is not what matters. How they turn the body after they've been eaten is what matters, and that depends on the state of the body. For example, limes are acid as a fruit, but alkalinize the body inside. It is confusing. But there are some foods everyone agrees with.
Here is a way to check your baby's acidity/alkalinity. Check her urine and saliva with pH paper. You can get it at a store or order it from me. Urine should be around a pH of 8 in adults. Since babies don't usually eat alkalizing foods early in life, I don't know how much lower their urine should be, but I would like to at least see a pH of 7. The urine should be fresh. Sitting in the diaper could change it to more basic, since urine is broke down to ammonia by bacteria. So try to check the strip placed in the diaper frequently. Do this several times a day. Watch the effect of certain foods. With the urine following a meal by a few hours, you should be able to determine if what she ate was acidifying or alkalizing. Saliva should be 8.5.
Probiotics, as mentioned by one of your other suggestions, are extremely important. But, the only human form is HMF. This is not sold retail, but only through providers such as myself, who use the company that makes it. The other probiotics that you buy in the store are cow form--great for calves, but do not colonize our GI tracts. If you ever took an antibiotic, then you do not have the good bacteria in you, and therefore your baby doesn't have it either, as it passes to her as she passes through the birth canal. C-section babies are definitely deficient.
I would recommend you seek the advise of a naturopathic physician in your area. Do check his/her training, though, as naturopathic physicians are not licensed in many states. Tell your state congressmen that you want naturopathic medicine and you want it legalized. If you can't find one, you can consult me eventually by webcam. I am checking into doing this, and when available, it will be on my web site, www.sevenpillarstotalhealth.com.
L. Cheek, MD
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Dublin, VA 24084