This is where lying comes into play and I dont care what people think about it. I would tell her that Holidays you have reserved for family only because of time constraints.
Are you both SAHM's? I would plan things with just her and her kids and leave the husbands out of it.
I would say 90% of the time I hang out with my friends and kids, the husbands arent around.
I think there are ways around seeing her husband and still being her friend.
If you cant stand him, imagine how she feels living with him. She could probably use some girl time anyways....
*Suz, I feel like beating around the bush and not telling her that her husband is a jerk and we cannot stomach to be around him, is still a lie. Not being 100% honest, still to me is lying.
Im sorry, but I am not willing to tell someone that her husband (you, know her other half) sickens me.
I also feel that unsolicited relationship advice and causing drama is unecessary. Unless he is beating her or clearly verbally abusing her, their relationship is no ones business. Who the hell is anyone else to say what her husband should and shouldnt be doing.
If you were to come to someone asking for relationship advice, fine, speak your mind, but to blatantly go off on someones husband?
Thats a good friend? Really?
Like I said, I would prefer to keep that to myself.