D.F.
I have 2 children and I LOVE MY FLEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would most certainly put the oldest in the 3rd row and the baby behind me if I had a third. I despise vans so I needed something else. I went with captain's seat because I wanted my other passengers to get back in the back without moving the car seats. It's worked great for me - I have a 6month old and a 5year old. Good luck.