I can honestly say, I've parent different than I thought I would, even as young children to teenager, my oldest is 16, then 14 then 4.5 year old. My husband has a lot to do with it. I still the remember the first time my husband discipline the kids and I have never told him but inside my head I was like, how dear you scold my child... He's more firmer and have higher standards for the kids to achieve then what I have, however, I've seen his way work better. His attitude is be their parent and can be their best friend when they are grown... I at first had more of the attitude to be their best friend and parent which doesn't work too well (at any age).
When I was younger I thought my kids would even act different than who they really are... each has their own personality, and that's a big factor. They may have some similarities but they also have their difference from one another so what works for one doesn't always work for the other. Then throw in hormones and genes that didn't come from me (LOL) and each is their own...
I can honestly say, my husband has made me a better mother... Is his way right, not all the time, and I'm not exactly like him in everything. We try to be on the same page, however, we are both can be hard headed sometimes. He's more consistent than I am, I'm the push over one too, but that has to do also with who I am. So far they are turning out pretty good, of course there are things I would have done different if I could go back in time... With the older two, I've had the majority of their teachers (throughout the years, not just one year or so) said they wish they had a room full of my kids, so I must be doing something half way right.