Keep offering him a variety, even when you know he won't eat it, especially with the fruits and veggies. This is just a phase and he eventually will eat these items. I see so many parents give up too easily! As for the food ideas, there are TONS of posts just like yours on this site. I myself have posted this several times (comes off the www. You can do a little research yourself):
• Try applesauce as a dip for cheese cubes
• Serve pureed bananas as French toast dip.
• Serve pureed fruit with pancakes/waffles
• Serve diced pears with cereal rings.
• Stir pureed plums into plain yogurt.
• Mix pureed carrots into scrambled eggs.
• Stir spinach into spaghetti sauce.
• Top plain cooked pasta with pureed peas.
• Mix diced green beans into mashed potatoes.
• Stir soft, bite-sized veggies into Mac n’ cheese.
• Shred and apple on top of a waffle.
• Stir deiced peaches into hot cereal.
• Top a baked potato with any pureed baby food.
Keep in mind most children like:
• Mildly flavored
• Slightly cooked
• Crunchy
• Bright colors (add food coloring)
• Easy to eat (size)
• Warm vs. hot
• Small portions
• Dipping sauces (cheese, yogurt, salsa, fruit puree, soy sauce, ranch dressing etc.)
PROTEIN RICH FOODS
Cheese : strips/squares of soft cheese (American, Gouda, Jack, Cheddar, etc.)
• ricotta or cottage cheese (mix with fruit) string cheese, cream cheese & jelly
• Yogurt: custard style, whole milk (4% fat), yogurt, frozen - add cream
Meat:
• salami, turkey
• ham strips (wrap around cheese/cream cheese)
• liverwurst, sausage
• chicken pieces (wrap in crisp bacon, moisten with gravy or broth)
• small meatballs
• ravioli
• macaroni & cheese- add cream
Fish:
• tuna (packed in oil) mixed with mayo
• fish sticks &. tartar sauce
Eggs:
• deviled (mix mayo into yoke of hard-boiled egg)
• scrambled with cheese or cream cheese
Misc.:
• tofu (stir fry cubes in peanut oil), peanut sauce or
• tahini (sesame seed paste) for dipping
• refried beans mashed with sour cream and cheese
• grilled cheese sandwich with mayo on inside and margarine/butter on outside of bread, cut into small triangles
FRUIT & VEGETABLES
• Banana- slices, mix with peanut butter or non-dairy whipped cream
• Avocado- slices, mix with mayo and lemon
• Papaya- mashed, whipped cream
• Fruit- canned, chunks, roll in Graham cracker crumbs!
• Squash- pumpkin or squash squares, bake with butter & brown sugar, season with nutmeg
• Vegetables: any vegetable cooked with sour cream, gravy or added cheese, cheese sauce
STARCH
• Potato : French fries, tator tots, mashed potatoes with butter, gravy or sour cream
• Noodles: Ramen type soups - - add scrambled egg, meat chunks, or vegetables
pasta with butter and parmesan cheese
• macaroni & cheese
• Crackers: Graham, saltines, Waverly -- top with cream cheese & jelly or thinned
peanut butter & jelly, cheese