With 4 kids of my own and many road trips under our belts, I am going to strongly urge you not to try to do 14 hours in one day. You may luck out and find his fine for that long, but I think that would be some sort of freak of nature. At the very least you should stay the night in Lincoln.
Here is what I keep in mind when we take a trip:
- Stopping at least every two hours is a must
- Pay attention to the signs, if they need to stop - stop
- Have a play bag of toys, books, etc.
- Have as many snacks (age appropriate of course) that you can think of
- LET THE BABY DIRECT YOU - it is not worth it to try to make them fit your mold - BELIEVE ME
We just took all four of our kids on a 7 hour trip to Wamego, KS a couple weeks ago (ages 11, 5, 3, and 6mo) and we just put them in bed the night before in their clothes for the next day. We packed the car the night before, let them all stay up late, got up at 4am the next morning and off we went. We had been driving for nearly 5 hours before one even got up. When they got up, I had breakfast ready for them and they made it the rest of the way in with only one stop for pottying. I nurse the baby but she will take a bottle so we didn't have to stop and nurse her.
I say leare real early in the morning, get there, do your thing, stay the night and drive back early the next morning.
Good luck!