I've said it a thousand times and I'm saying again,"A mother that loves their child knows her child better than any Dr. could."who sees them for 15 min. once a week,month or year.
What do you see in your child?Is your son behind?Be kind to him by allowing him to be uniquely imperfect,he is divinely his own person,beautiful in every way,yes?If your son will need "glasses as mine did A. 3 yrs old,he will grasp objects late,but will eat,lift and speak just fine.Does he respond with coo's and babbles?Check the Gerber website if you can ,they have a great "grow-list" for any age if you need a comparison for cognitive behavior,physical growth,ect.It might be helpful.Most of all,RELAX Mommy,we are all created individually unique. :)