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I have the same deal with my 15 and 13 year old boys. I could never leave them alone together and it is sketchy now. My ex and I have to be referees. They are much too big for me now, the 15 yr old being 5'10'', 200lbs. and it becomes quite scary when the fists start to fly. I wish I could give you some great advice but quite frankly, the only thing that works is to separate them, in different households!! They are both in therapy and the oldest is dealing with anger management. There is an on-going peer group in Worcester for adolescents 13-17 that deals with anger management. I can forward the # if you, or anyone else, is interested. Good Luck!