Fever Forever

Updated on December 05, 2013
T.A. asks from Hialeah, FL
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My daughter has been sick for the past few weeks. Two weeks ago she started a case of diarrhea which lasted appx 4 days then she went back to normal bowel movements with no sickness. Her ped diagnosed gastreoenteritis , she then returned to daycare for 3 days and Thursday morning woke up with a fever of about 37.5 , since then she hasn't eaten solid foods. We've been to sick kids in Toronto emergency close to home she was diagnosed with a ear infection and put on (not amoxiccilin she has an allergy) antibiotic , 48 hrs later still high fevers and no change in appetite only nursing. The following days no improvement we took her to her pediatrican since now she has a bad cough and still wont eat. He saw a throat infection , no ear infection and changed her antibiotic to one more sensitive to throat infections. Her fever has shot up to 38.9 at its highest and has pretty much been non-stop anytime her tylonel or advil begins to wear off. We're alternating from tylonel to advil every 4.5 hours for tylonel and 5 for advil but at night anytime its wearing off she shoots up right again to the mid 38's. She hasn't eaten solids but nurses about 15-20x a day , she is 21 months and a female. We have a follow up apt with her ped on Friday to see if her antibiotic is helping her throat but i'm still anxious and nervous to see this ongoing fever. I've also decided against taking her back to daycare , I cant take the infection and viruses im a student and have decided to drop out of school. PLEASE HELP

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Hi! Thanks for your responses it feels great to hear from other moms. Her temp is 102 at its highest and what worries me is that she hasn't eaten barely any solids in a week not even soup it seems like she has no appetite rather than it being painful to swallow she shows no interest in anything but nursing. I'd like to add when she's under the effects of Advil or Tylonel she's completely normal high energy just no food but once their effects wear off she's no energy bright red cheeks just hugs me and doesn't move from my side. It's awful seeing her this way I am a first time and young mom with little support from other mothers so I have very little to compare with. Tmrw she's going to see her ped but have you ever felt like when your child is sick and even if you see as many drs as I have (4) different drs two emerg 1 walk in and her own ped once within this past week you feel like you still can't just take a breath and not worry about it - I could take her to the emerg everyday

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R.J.

answers from Seattle on

Good news... So far you haven't had a high fever, yet.

37.5 (99) is very low grade
38.9 (102) is mid grade

Running a 38s (low to midgrade / 101-102) fever is very very normal when fighting off a mild infection or illness. 10 days for a cold, and up to a month or so for ear/nose/throat repeat infections.

It sounds like you're staying on top of things, but suggest you're overreacting a tad at the idea of dropping out of school for a couple weeks of non-threatening fever. It's never fun when our little ones get sick, especially back to back. But unless you're looking at prolonged hospital stays, I don't think you need to derail your life over a fairly minor illness, kwim?

If cold/flu season is problematic, you might look into using winter as your summer break, or scale down on your coursework.

Good early catch in the ear infection, btw!

As far as fevers being dangerous... I personally monitor closely at 39.2/ mid grade (102.5), and don't blink until 40 (104). As long as you can keep,a fever in the 38s (101-102.1) on meds, you're doing good.

Down here on this side of the border, there's a saying "104 & out the door" (to go to the ER). In general: 38s at home, 39s get seen, 40s ER.

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G.B.

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This isn't because you're a student. It's because she's building her immune system. It's a normal thing kids have to do. If she doesn't go through this now she'll do it her first full year of kindergarten and miss out on so much.

I'd still take her to the doc tomorrow. She needs to be seen.

I don't have any idea what her temperature is though. If it's over 103.0 Fahrenheit then you might want to take her to an urgent care or emergency room so they can check. The antibiotic isn't working. That means this is probably a virus. Viruses just have to run their course. If she takes antibiotics while going through a virus it just builds up her tolerance to that antibiotic. Sometimes kids don't need an antibiotic.

Again, take care of her and get her well. Your school is important and you need to stay in school. She needs these germs. It is what will help her fight off disease as an adult.

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S.W.

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I agree with Riley about school. Your baby's body is doing what it is designed to do fight an infection with a fever. Try to make her comfortable and keep pushing to liquids.

I recall getting Dimeatapp over the counter when we lived in Quebec. That was my ped's go to medicine. Sometimes you just have to ride them out and that sounds like what you are doing. Not fun but necessary.

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D.B.

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It's so frustrating when a child continues to be sick and makes no improvement. It's not unusual for a child to have no appetite when ill, especially when there are intestinal irritations and a reduced activity level. I think she has a compromised immune system and just isn't getting better, and she keeps contracting something new. I don't think throwing more meds at it is going to address the underlying cause. In my experience, there's even less absorption of medications when the diarrhea is in force anyway, and she's not going to absorb much nutrition from her food either. I think food science is a better focus for you, for now and for prevention going forward. All of the current research is showing a boost in immune functioning is far better than endless medications, with better prevention for the short run and for the long term.

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