I have gathered some great ideas from this post. My only thought on all of this is to do something fun during the day that's centered around your daughter and then in the evening when she goes to bed you and your husband can have time together. I loved the idea of making a meal together. Something red and festive. Decorating cookies was also a good idea. I know my 3 year old daughter would love that as well.
Thank you for posting this. I hope whatever you decide is fun for the 3 of you. Be thankful your hubby is there to spend the day with you. Mine will be out of town on business and I will at home with our 2 girl's. Makes me so sad. Now I can take some of these ideas and share them with my girl's. Thanks.