Family Issues, Need advice...followup.

Next time she hits anyone call the police that is Assult and she can be charged.

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Next time she hits anyone call the police that is Assult and she can be charged.

Wow, my response is that it's crazy to consider your sis & BIL coming to your party because THEY are the problem!!!!!!

Don't invite any of them. Just invite your mom. If your sis & BIL have a problem with it, I personally would tell them exactly why none of them are invited. As for your nephew, I would tell him to bring Grandma, so then he has a reason to come for a visit.

If it were me I would invite them all for the housewarming party and not be intimidated by the niece, at all! Actually, since it would be at your house, it would be 'your rules' and the fact that you would have your husband there for back-up would ensure you could say something to the niece if she acted up, ya know?

Other than that, I got nothing for you. I guess it really is none of your business what your mom has decided to with and in her home.

Wow. My mom is 72, she would not put up with that type of behavior. Why is she allowing them to move in with her permanently, does she actually like the drama?
I'd have a long talk with your mom about NOT letting them live with her.
And, nope, I wouldnt let those brats in my house either....
If your mom wants them to stay, when legally she doesnt have to... I'd shy away for awhile. You dont have to put up with that type of stuff, it's wrong.

I think your mom needs advice from an elder care lawyer. But unless your mom is willing to stand up to her and say no, you are not moving in, I'm not sure there is much that you can do there.

As for the party, I think you invite all of them or just your mom. I don't think you can exclude your niece if you are inviting her brother.