Explaining to 7Y/o and 3.75Y/o We Are Moving and Suggestions for Help with Move

P., I am so sorry you and your family are going through this.

Keep in mind that your kids will say things about not wanting to move because they like their house, neighbors, etc. When we moved my kids said they liked the old house better that they missed the neighbor (who was a 75 yr old man they were afraid of when we lived next to him). Don't let it get to you. I acknowledged how they felt and told them that I really liked our old house too but I really liked our new one just as much. Have them be part of the packing, unpacking and organizing their rooms it could help them be excited.

You said you have already contacted your church, that's great. Don't be afraid to be specific with the type of help you need whether it be financial, emotional or physical help. I'm sure the paster or minister would help organize church members to help with the physical moving if you tell him/her that's what you need. I know our church helps those in financial need too, just ask.

For boxes start asking around to see if anyone know someone who has recently moved and still has their moving boxes. We got a ton of boxes that way, it was a friend of a friend. Ask all the parents at school if they know someone who has boxes. Start spreading the word now so you aren't scrabbling at the last minute.

You and your family are in my prayers.

As for the school, you may not have to leave the district even if you move residences. In our community there are options to transfer in, which is really just paperwork once your child is already enrolled there. I started in one school boundary and moved out of it, but my children remain and will no matter where we end up.

For free boxes, look on Craigslist, Freecycle, or any parent/mothers club in town.

Good luck, it'll get better....

Im so sorry that you have to go through this. It is hard to lose the things you love. But just remember that things will get better, and even though they are hard now, doesnt mean they will be forever. This too shall pass. You still have your family and thats whats important.

I would tell them that you are going to move into a better house, and that maybe they will have their own rooms, just try your best to put it into a happy thing, like telling them its going to be a new adventure and it will be fun. But you need them to be good and helpful.

As for your church yes, they should help, thats what your community is all about helping others in need and you need their help. As for boxes go to your grocery stores in town and ask them if on shipment days they will save their boxes for you.

Good luck with everything, and things will get better dont worry.

To know: as long as you're in the district at the beginning of the year... you can stay in the school even if you move *for the rest of that year* in every school district I have been a part of. Most people choose to change schools to cut down on drive time... but we didn't.

So if you can find a pet friendly month to month rental easily OUT of district (and just not unpack a lot, clothes + kitchen necessities + fav toys), it gives you a good 6+ months to find a more permanent rental IN district / the school's "pull" zone. Just be sure to ask for the map where the lines are drawn.

I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I can only imagine the stress that you are under. It is good that you have reached out to your church, you never know what resources you have there until you let them know you are in need.
The only advice I have for you is on boxes. Call your local liquor store and ask them for boxes, most will not break them down if they know you will come get them. I say liquor store boxes for a few reasons. First reason they are sturdy, the are made to hold glass bottles so they will not give out on you. Second reason they are on the smaller side, that makes them easier to pack in the trunk and if they are smaller you are less likely to make them too heavy to carry. We only use liquor store boxes when we move, it works better for us.
Tis' the season of giving, be honest with your church and I am sure you will have volunteers to help you. As for the moving with the kids, don't be afraid to be honest, in language they can understand. Kids read body language and even if your mouth says happy, they will know how you really feel. They don't need all the details, just let them know all is well because you have each other and there may be unpleasant changes but you will do your best.
Good Luck