G.B.
Hi A.,
You can worry yourself sick about what others think, but it will be futile. Others will always judge,but they are not the ones who even sit in the judgement seat. The Bible tells us not to worry about what anyone else thinks, only what your soveriegn Lord thinks. God is the one who has authority to judge and has authority to give and take away.
It is written: "In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps."- Proverbs 16:9.
Birth control is a manmade thing, an attempt to steer our life. The reality is that it is God who decided your life should be blessed by these children, and he thought you were worthy enough for these blessings. The Bible says God will equip you for every good work... isn't that a wonderful promise? And God doesn't lie.
"God is able to make all grace abound in you, so that in ALL things at ALL times, having ALL that you need, you will abound in every good work". -2 Corinthians 9:8
The road might be difficult at times, but any suffering produces perseverence, and perseverence character, and character, hope, and hope does not dissapoint us. As humans we will all face different difficulties depending on what God decided we should have. Someone else's difficulties might be no sight, lameness, sickness, or to born into poverty.
"Do not worry" is written in many places in the Bible! Satan would like to convince you that you are not cradled in the hands of your maker. If you trust God with your life, I mean really beleive that he is LORD and takes care of all your needs, he will not dissapoint. The lord would like to see you build your faith in HIM into the hearts of the little ones that he gifted to you. "If all your sons will be taught by the Lord, great will be your children's peace" -Isaiah 54:13
"The Lord tends his flock (us) like a shpherd,
He gathers the lambs in his arms
and carries them close to his heart,
he gently leads those who have young" -Isaiah 40:11
"I know the plans I have for you" declares the lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future" -Jeremiah 29:11
Wheather you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying "This is the way, walk in it".- Isaiah 30:21