K.P.
My son has become really interested recently in the villains in stories, so we've been talking about "bad guys" and what makes them "bad". Well, my husband (ever concrete as he is) told my son that the guy "in black" is usually the bad guy. We're at his swim lessons last week and there was a black man and his daughter waiting for the lessons to start and you know where this is headed:
Son: Mommy, is that a bad guy?
Me: No, honey- why would you think that?
Son: Because daddy says the black guy is usually the bad guy
Me:
Pretty much speechless. I muttered through an explanation to the man, who graciously went along with it and said something about his daughter assuming that all white men couldn't dance, but it was MORTIFYING!