Hi A.!!
I have read The Diaper Free Baby Book" and actually found it to be very insightful. I haven't followed it to the letter, considering I have a 19mo and a 33mo and one on the way. I picked the book up much later than the time they reccomend that you begin the process. However, I am considering it with my third. I can say this, once I placed my oldest in just underwear all the time, even at night, she potty trained in like three days. I haven't had any trouble with it since. Also, I started this week with trying to train my 19 month old. I am hoping I have success, I am trying to read her signs, and learn how to "communicate" with her. I personally find that what the books says is pretty accurate. I lived overseas for quite sometime, and in countries, where quite honestly diapers after a very young 8-12mos were not the norm. I think it can work, and if you decide to go for it.. I wish you the best of luck. Let me know how it works for you!Oh, yeah.. I remember shortly after I read the book I hit the websites they mention, and found that there are surprisingly several groups that are in VA.
Best Wishes!!
K.