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Well, kids this age and even 2 year olds... do not 'know' how to portion size and how much to put in their mouth.
They then have a bunch of food in their mouth and like a Chipmunk, have it just piled in their mouth.
Since your child is not 'chewing' the food, is he just swallowing it????
Be careful, that he does not choke or aspirate the food.
Kids this age, choke on food and if they over stuff their mouths.
Maybe you need to put less food on his plate.
And, Mash it, since he does not chew.
My son choked on food. When he was a toddler. He like many toddlers, over stuff their mouths.
I would tell him it is 'dangerous.' He can choke.
Or maybe, he is really just doing what his Dad does. Since you said your Husband eats the same way.
Kids are sponges.