WOW, can I ever relate to this story. I have 5 kids, 3 boys and two girls. My oldest daughter was reading by 4 and also ready for kindergarden much sooner than they were allowing kids to go. WHen she finally got into kindergarden, she was BORED stiff. This turned her into not caring because she was not challenged at all for the first 6 years of school. Her first year with challenges was 7th grade.. not a good time to all of a sudden HAVE to learn to study (you know, puberty, boys and that is the year my ex left us) My youngest daughter also having a winter birthday was the same way, she was reading 5th grade books by the time she was 4... SO, I got her enrolled in HOME school kindergarden and worked with her an hour a day. By the time she was the "age" for kindergarden she was at a 5th grade level for most everything but higher for reading! She was tested so I know what I am saying is fact! They wanted to bump her directly to 5th grade when she was 5... being TINY for her age and all we decided she could just jump one grade. That way she also learned social skills, and I kept her in BOOKS daily by going to the library. The school also allowed her to check out books of a much higher level than her grade. This kept her CHALLENGED, and interested in school. MY POINT? my oldest got bored and eventually not interested in school... never went to college and never excelled in HS because she never learned to study... the youngest on the other hand being challenged all the way, graduated from HS early, and at the ripe OLD AGE of 19 is already a sophomore in college! and.... get this.. made straight A's alllll the way~~~NOW she is not instant learner...she has to study and work at it, but since she was kept challenged and praised all the time for her good work, she loved to learn, the oldest was not allowed that because they school district we had her in would not allow her to bump up because of her birthday! Will they ever learn ? I was also told My youngest son should WAIT a year before going to school because he was a boy and had a summer birthday and boys are slower than girls... hmmm okay, what does that have to do with it.. I know he could read already also... I sent him on to K that year ... he has never failed one grade, class or even a paper.. he is a straight A student also, and is presently a full time computer tech, going to college and a husband and father at 21... My advice... get her registered in HOME SCHOOL Kindergarden with the school district, they will provide you with all your materials. You can also get her envolved with other home school kids her age through the district that way she will learn social skills too. (and learn the ones you want her to learn, not the naughty ones!) You can homeschool K even if you work full time because it's short lessons daily!
Hope this helps! OH ... my first daughter, NOV baby and my youngest.. also a Dec. Baby... Us December gals must be smart! LOL