C.M.
You said she's complaining of ear pain but also acting like a normal three year old? Well then I'd give her tylenol and let her go. I think we did the drops for 1-2 days (both kids hated them) and that's it. Mine have been fine since getting tubes - no complaints of pain. Maybe she can hear better now so she 'feels' like she's in pain? Be sure to monitor her.