A.C.
hi -
first of all I'm sure you have heard this before but you are not a lone (even though it may feel that way). I'm sorry you feel this way :(
is she still in OT/speech? if so, they should be able to help you come up with accommodations. Did the OT work from a SI frame of reference? (e.g. did the OT use suspended equipment when treating her?)
If you have not already seen this site a wonderful resource is http://www.apraxia-kids.org/. they have information related to education and apraxia/dyspraxia.
Also check out ldonline.org - in the search engine type handwriting - they have some wonderful info related to kids who struggle with writing. last i'd recommend looking at www.nichcy.org to review your rights related to 504s and IEPs.
when kids have a hard time copying from the board one way to assist by modifying the environment is to decrease the amount of times she needs to shift her eyes from a horizontal surface (desk) to vertical surface (board). Some ideas to help include:
• place a letter strip on her desk so she can easily reference the alphabet
• have the teacher write what she wants the class to copy from the board on paper and place the paper on the table so she is copying from one paper to another both on the desk (copying from horizontal surface to horizontal surface).
• consider decreasing writing demands, possibly see if she can answer some test orally.
• If she has a hard time following what she is reading/copying on paper (e.g. she skips lines) – use a piece of paper to cover the words that she does not need to read/copy
• Have you tried handwriting without tears?
hope that helps - GOOD LUCK!!!