J.M.
Have you tried the sit and stand stroller yet? I used it for my 2 youngest kids...one is almost 4 and the youngest is 2. I actually just got rid of it because I don't use it that often anymore. I absolutely loved it. I had a regular double stroller before and the 4 y/o always wanted to get up and down after a while. I never had a side by side double stroller, but from the sounds of it, going into a department store isn't really feasable(sp).