S.S.
I see you have lots of wonderful answers. So I will just put my nosey question out there...what is his mystery sport and why wouldn't you tell us? We are here to help you. So unless it's something not good -like gambling-although I never thought of it as a sport...no matter what he is now a father and a husband and while sports are lovely he should definitely rearrange his life and sport to make family a priority. And no we are not in this situation although I was with my ex husband. Sadly he became my ex partly for that reason. But it wasn't a sport. He was an artist and among other things he spent all of his time insisting that his work came first. Among other things...he actually worked as an artist and the outside art activity was more a hobby. However, I didn't mention he also had some other mental health issues which I won't address here. I think I could have lived with those. But having a family and competition in either a sport or arts or whatever else that robs family of their time should definitely be talked about. Preferably with a therapist.