ok, so you are divorcing him and he is suddenly buying you very expensive gifts, you want my honest been there, done that opinion ? i am willing to bet that his little girlfriend on the side ( by the way its obvious), is pregnant, and he is horrified of having to actually accept some responsibility. so he is hedging his bets, and trying to win you back, so that he can tell his pregnant girlfriend "sorry, but, i am still married" do yourself a really big favor, hire a private investigator and find out who he is seeing, this will help you in the divorce proceedings.and he is a control freak that you need to put some distance between you and him before he hurts you or your kids
K. h.
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honey, you are not unappreciative you are just smart enough to know that when he gets bored with his little girlfriend on the side, he will try to come back to you. he still sees himself as a 17 year old poon hound, that is his problem, not yours. as dr. phil once said, you cant change what happened to you, but you can change your attitude toward what happened to you. if he can buy you back with gifts, he is going to treat you like he is buying "it" from you.be smart and put at least one state between you and this walking reason for birth control.. you are already doing the right thing,by getting out of the loop of bed hopping that he is doing. causally look him up in another 10-15 years, and sit back and laugh, because he will no longer be your problem.been there, done that.
K. h.