My husband has/had ulcerative colitis (diagnosed about 12 yrs. ago) which is very similar to Crohn's. Crohn's can affect different parts of the digestive system, where colitis only affects the colon. My husband's situation really was a "worst case scenario", which I say as an encouragement to you. WE MADE IT; not that it wasn't hard, but with the help of our deep faith in God's loving hand in it all, and wonderfully knowledgable doctors, my husband's quality of life is great right now. He's teaching high school and very active with our 3 kids. Here's a glimpse of my husband's story...
He really suffered from what many doctors told him was the worst case they had ever seen when he was a Sophomore in college. Without going into all the gross details, he was losing large amounts of blood, was on TONS of pills every day including steroids that turned his slight build into a balloon, and eventually had to drop out of school. (He did finish though, which was such a blessing!) He was in the hospital for a month at a time and went from 170 lbs to 115. It got so bad that the doctors eventually performed emergency surgery to remove his entire colon. He did pretty well for a number of years (although following the surgery, things took some getting used to.) and then about 2 years ago, things started getting complicated again with infections and flair-ups. Things got really bad again last year and we traveled all the way to the Cleveland Clinic for a second opinion before following through with a life-changing surgery. We have been very pleased with the doctor's recommendations, and things seem to be working really well right now. He has been on all kinds of diets and medications and has become an expert on his condition.
I say all of this, because he'd be great at answering specific questions you might have. I really don't want to scare you!! I'll be very honest. It may be a long and hard road for you, or you may be fortunate not to have to go through all of that. It's something that you have to deal with one step at a time, so don't get overwhelmed. If I had known all that my husband would have to endure, I wouldn't know how to cope, but God helped us every step of the way. We were amazed at the amount of strength we were given to cope with it all. Your husband very well could go into remission, and with the help of diet and doctor recommendations do really, really well. We'd love to recommend great doctors in the Phila. area and give you suggestions about diets or anything else you may need. It you're interested feel free to write. ____@____.com