A.V.
So they've just left your services without telling you? I'm sorry. I'm assuming you have a contract so can you enforce it for at least a little money owed if they didn't give you notice?
What I want to get rid of is the split Christmas Day. It's partially b/c SS's birthday is also Christmas,but it means they never come to my side's celebration and when they leave is stupidly determined by their mom and DH goes along with it. One is a young adult now and if he's old enough to go to his GF's family's place on a plane 2 days after Christmas, he's old enough to not have to see everyone on Christmas Day. We split Thanksgiving (EOY) and they always do Easter with their mom. I'd like a more fair shake. It feels like they're here for the good stuff and then off and we're left with the mess. And DD misses them, too.