T. - I have been through a divorce when I did not have much money and a 1 year old. It is not emotionally easy and the cost sometimes makes it even harder. I think you should look into a collaborative resolution.
Collaborative Law is a process where the husband, wife, and both their attorney's agree to resolve all issues in their case without involving a court. They work together, in private to find a way to meet each individual's needs so that the couple may make a smoother transition from being married to being single. Please check out their website http://www.collablawtexas.org/
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