T.F.
I have always dealt directly with Disney. I check their website and also confirm things with the phone number they have listed. I am not one to go for the discunters because you have to be very careful to read ALL the fine print and know exactly what you are getting. Always remember "you get what you pay for" "If it sounds to good to be true,,,,it probably is"
We have been to Disney at least 7 times, last Spring Break was the last time we went and it was not that bad. We started when daughter was 2 and went about every 2 yrs up until last spring break.
Depending on your children and your budget. ....... Our theory is if we are going to do something, we will do it right. We LOVE the Polynesian and that has been our top choice each time. We have stayed in the regular rooms with plenty of space as well as the Conceirge level (our personal favorite) Many people say Conceirge is too much $$ and granted it is a LOT of $$ upwards of $400/night .....BUT food and drink is always available and you can cut way down on snacks and dinners. They have something out all the time...breakfast, lunch, afternoon snack, dinner, and dessert times with food available. It is right across from MK where you have a great view of the nightly fireworks. Conceirge also has extra perks with all the parks. Last year we took advantage of a semi private (10 people) safari that was right up close and personal with the animals on the safari, a guide and special stops along the way.
Transportation.....we always fly and take a cab from the airport to the hotel last year was $80 each way. Disney does have a shuttle that will take you (FREE) to and from but you have no idea how long it will take you to get to your hotel and where your drop spot will be. It depends on how many people are on the shuttle. We prefer the straight shot one on one cab. We do not rent a car while there, don't need it. We use the monorail and bus system.
Polynesian is on the monorail line and is an EASY stop if you have little ones at MK and you need to run to the room for a nap. You can be back SO fast to the room. The Grand Floridian is a fantastic place and the Contemporary is a good place. The 3 are on the monorail line and easy access to MK.
We have always been to Disney around the Spring Break time or in early August. We've never experienced a huge wait line for anything. Last year, I had 2 14 yr old girls and they never complained with not being able to do something because of a line.
Character dinners, lunch, breakfast are a must. Take an autograph book for the children to get autographs. our favorites are Chef Mickey at the Contemporary...a good buffet that most peole enjoy, the luau (original, not character) is a lot of fun, Pooh breakfast inside MK was fun. The 3:00 parade is a must see as well as nightly fireworks.
Whatever you do, go to enjoy, have patience, and watch those smiling faces of your children.
I have more info from experience if you like. Also, Polynesion has a "camp" for kids so you can get out with hubby for a nice dinner. I don't know ages, etc, we never used it. I can't say enough about Polynesian...I could stay there and go no where else. The Floridian is super nice....country clubbish and classy.
Enjoy!!