Wow, that's crazy! My husband owns a mortgage company and is saying that FHA loans are easier to get now because they just loosened up a little after pulling the reins right after the mortgage crisis! He's getting people great loans in the 5% range.
I would find out if your mortgage guy is FHA licensed. If not, then he's only able to go through banks for loans, and the banks are still hurting. I'm not trying to take business away from anyone, but I just know that my husband is getting people financed left and right right now, and putting them in great 30 year fixed loans. You could always give him a call and see if he could help you. He was able to push a loan for us in under 3 weeks, so if he knew your situation he could really work at it and get it done. His name is Doug, he owns Guardian Financial, and his number is ###-###-####. He can do loans all over Indiana, and some other states too. It's a great time to buy a home and to refinance, so congratulations! I know that we just saved over $100 a month by refinancing just because of the rate cuts that just happened.