L.T.
Hi A.,
My daughter had a mild case of eczema when she was a toddler. I do not know if this will work for you since your daughter's case is much worse than my daughter's but it's worth a try. I purchased a book called "Aromatherapy for the Healthy Child" by Valerie Worwood. In it she has a recipe for eczema. I did not have all the ingredients so I just used what I had and it worked great. I took 3 oz of Organic olive oil and put it into a colored glass btl and added 10 drps of lavender oil and 10 drps of german camomile oil. I used this as her lotion and put it all over her body. Worwood suggests using 2oz almond oil, 1/4oz jojoba oil, 1/2oz sunflower seed oil, 1/4 oz camellia oil and 6 drps evening primrose oil with lavender(10drps),german camomile(10drps), palmarosa(6drps), bergamot(2drps)She says to use a small amt of the mix on the affected areas as needed. She also suggests using 1tbsp of one of these oils in the bath (almond, jojoba, grapeseed, or sunflower seed.) Another recipe is to put a small amt of organic oats, 1/2tsp jojoba oil and 1drp lavender in a muslin bag and tie, place in bath. In her bk she states that the most likely sources of allergies to cause eczema are wheat, dairy products, eggs, pet hair, wool, water softening agents, and clothes softening products. If you are breast feeding try cutting out some of the allergens from your diet and see if that helps.
p.s. if you use my concoction-- FYI, it seems like after I had used the olive oil lotion that I read in her bk not to use the olive oil on children a certain age but I didn't read that beforehand and now I can't find it again. My daughter is fine and the lotion worked great on her eczema. Worwood does say to use organic, cold pressed olive oil when using it (if you decide to go that route vs all the other oils she lists)
Good luck. I feel for you, it's heartbreaking to see the agony they are in and not be able to help them.