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A., I do not suffer from prolapse. However, if your doctor refuses to help in any way when you are in so much pain, GET A SECOND OPINION! It can't hurt. You may find that another doctor is willing to try multiple alternatives before surgery. I have found, although I am young (21 on Dec. 6!), those in the medical profession who have been in practice for many years and are part of the "old guard" tend not to be willing to take action with some conditions, especially if you are young. If you ever want to have more children in the future I would suggest seeking a second opinion if your DR continues to refuse treatment. I would suggest a second opinion just because you are in that much pain.
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