E.M.
Oh I've been through the same thing with my daughter (now a few weeks shy of 4). She just potty trained a few weeks ago. We tried everything; cold turkey (no diapers just undies) but I was so anxious and crazy following her around; sitting in the bathroom with her FOREVER when she showed just the slightest interest; the "timer" method where I would put her on the potty every 30 minutes which resulted in a screaming. crying child who wanted nothing to do with the potty. She would say the same thing as your daughter. I thought the same thing as you, she'll see the other kids in preschool and want to do it too. She didn't even care! Now, a little history, my daughter has some sensory issues so I always just blamed the fact that she wasn't potty training because of that. I was getting frustrated so I started doing some research and discovered 3daypottytraining.com I am not one for gimicks that promise great results but the more research on this the more excited I got at the possibility. We purchased the ebook, got all the supplies, sent my other daughter away for the first day with my mom and set forth on our potty training quest. My daughter got it the FIRST day. (Same girl who wanted nothing to do with the potty, remember crying, screaming, etc) I highly recommend this program, especially since your situation sounds much like ours. Good luck and God bless!