Do you think there is a reason she scratches her head and face...is she itching or anything? Yes with infants they can/do scratch themselves inadvertently....but as you described it, your daughter seems to do it "when she is frustrated..." Mittens are the usual way to cope with it... but the infant can also pull it off themselves if they really want to. I know you prefer not to use mittens... but if your girl is leaving "bloody gashes" on herself... then maybe you want to use that until she grows out of it, or until you find out why she is scratching so hard to bleeding.
Or perhaps is she allergic to anything? Perhaps the scratching herself "when she is frustrated" is really that she "looks" frustrated while scratching because something is itchy or something... thus her "frustrated" appearance. Not frustrated = scratching, but scratching=itching=frustration kind of thing. Is it just her head area that she scratches? If so, why? Or does she scratch elsewhere? Does she do this ALL the time, or is it a random occurrence? Infants, due to their nails being naturally thin and sharp, can sometimes scratch themselves unknowingly. But your daughter seems to do this most of the time? Use the process of elimination to see if their is perhaps a correlation as to why she does this...
You really need to address it with your Pediatrician. I imagine she must have all kinds of "bloody" scratches on her... you wouldn't want infection to occur or scars etc.
Infants nails are "sharp" no matter how close to the nib you cut it... their nails are thin and sharp.
Good luck,
~Susan
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