Hi Amy
I'm a chiropractor and have treated many kids and adults for years. What you are describing, I would like you to see a neurologist after your pediatrician (if they oversee things as you had put it, hehehe). Also, I read an article somewhere regarding kids after swimming, may swallow some water and it kind of fills their lungs a little and doesn't allow them to breathe properly and causes them to sufficate (I think it is called dry drowning). I do not by any means mean to scare you, however, I would like you to be aware of it, since at grandma's house and you weren't there when they swim, in case they had a little incident/ scare or something that they may have not shared with you or grandma.... (Just keeping an eye on all kinds of possibilities just to be on the safe side)
And hopefully it is not a problem and it can be fixed. If at any point you like me to take a look at her to make sure structurally she is ok for nerve impingments from her spine to her lungs, let me know. I'll be happy to do that for you. Please email me and let me know what the doctors said. I'm interested in knowing.
Farid R., DC
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