Daughter Getting up Early & Potty Training

Updated on August 27, 2009
J.D. asks from Osseo, MN
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Our daughter, who just turned 2, took interest in potty training a few weeks ago now and is doing great. She has been in underwear during the day for just about 3 weeks and she's wearing pull-ups at night. My question is this - while potty training have your kids gotten up earlier in the morning? Our daughter has been a great sleeper since she was an infant - we have a nice nightly routine, she goes down at 7pm and has typically always gotten up between 6:15am - 6:45am but more recently she's been getting up anywhere between 5:15am - 6:15am. I don't mind if she gets up anytime after 6am but I don't want to start a pattern of allowing her to get up in the 5 o'clock hour :-)

She started this before we started potty training so once we did start I thought maybe she had been getting up because a wet diaper was bothering her or she wanted to get up to go to the potty but I'm quickly realizing she just "using" the potty to get out of her crib earlier in the morning. The other thing she's doing now is immediately upon waking up she starts calling for me over, and over, and over again where she used to play in her crib for 15-20 minutes and then call for us. Believe me, when she started this it was music to my ears but now, and I feel terrible saying this, but it's wearing on my patience.

Overall I guess I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions on why she may be getting up earlier and whether or not it has to do with potty training or not? Also, our pediatrician has recommended NOT going into her room in the morning and allowing her to go potty once the house is up - which is 6 or after. Does that really work? I'm open to all suggestions. Thanks!

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L.W.

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J.,

I agree with the other responses that it may simply be that your child doesn't need nearly 12 hours of sleep at night. Also, you should consider moving her out of the crib. She is old enough, and this may just be her way of letting you know that she is "a big girl" now. Another tool my sister used with her early riser son was a night light on a timer. He couldn't get out of his room until the night light turned off (7 AM). Hope this helps! Good luck, and congrats on the potty training!

Lisa, mom of 4 boys

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G.N.

answers from Minneapolis on

It's just a guess, but I may suggest shortening her naps if she is still taking them for you.

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T.C.

answers from Minneapolis on

I think its just the age and mabye she should go to bed a bit later. My son just turned 2 and has been in a big boy bed for a couple months now. He goes to bed anywhere between 7 and 8 at nite depending on his mood. If he is playing nice and being good he stays up later if he is really crabby and we can tell he is very tired he goes to be shortly after 7. The nites he goes to bed earlier he does seem to get up a bit earlier. Now though if he crawls out of bed before 6 i pick him up and bring him back into his bed and tell him its still nite nite time. The sun isnt up yet so we still get to sleep and he usually falls right back to sleep for another hour give or take. I would mabye try putting her in a big girl bed and see what she does. My son sleeps a lot better in his bed that in his crib. I think he is a lot more comfortable being able to move without getting his arms and legs caught. He has always been a pretty good sleeper but he just seems more content in the toddler bed. She may not like the crib as much anymore. If she gets out of bed while transitioning just pick her up and put her right back in with out saying much and she will get used to it. Good luck, its tough when they are up super early!

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A.H.

answers from Appleton on

Maybe she just doesn't need as much sleep now. My just-turned-2-yr-old was on about the same schedule, and in the last couple months has started going to bed about an hour later (8 pm, gets up around 6:30). She's not potty training yet really, so it may not be related to that at all.

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E.H.

answers from Madison on

not letting her get up to go to the bathroom!?! That doesn't sound like a very good Idea.

Since she is getting older... maybe she should start going to bed at 8pm instead. Perhaps that would help. Or swiching her to a big girl bed, then she can get out and go, then go back to bed? Wait who am I kidding... My 6 year old still tells me she needs to go, even tho I don't help her anymore! lol.

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C.T.

answers from Milwaukee on

After my daughter turned 2 this past April we moved her to a big girl bed, and then started potty training. I do not agree with letting her get out of bed to go to the bathroom herself, so we made it very clear that when she wakes up she has to call for us and we will come get her. Before being potty trained, she would fall asleep by 8pm and then sleep straight through until 8 am. After potty training she would wake up by 6am because she had to pee so bad. So now we let her stay up until 7:45pm so that she is asleep by 8:30, and then every single night without fail, my husband sets his alarm and takes her to the potty at 1:30 in the morning. She pees (a lot) and goes right back to bed. This way, she's back to sleeping until 8am since she doesn't have to pee so badly.

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R.K.

answers from Appleton on

If the child had to go potty she has to go potty!! Children can't tell time, she is simply listening to her body. Try putting her to bed a half hour to hour later than her normal time and see if that helps. If she is getting up earlier that you want her to see if she can go potty quietly then go back to her bed or just to her room and play with toys or watch TV. But please remember she is only 2, she is still very young and very much a baby.

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