Dairy Allergy Linked with Aggressive Behavior and Stomach Pain

Updated on February 23, 2009
S.G. asks from North Las Vegas, NV
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I have a 4 yr old boy who I am trying to determine what might be triggering his aggressive behavior towards others and his 2 yr old brother. He has gotten much better with the aggression but often is complaining of stomach pain (4 x wk at least), which has been going on on and off for a year. I have done behavior logs and food logs together for a two week period recently and 1 yr ago and really can't see too much coorelation. I have heard and read about food allergy to dairy causing some of these symptoms. I am getting ready to try an elimination diet and see if we get anywhere. He really craves dairy also which is a good sign that it may be a problem. So, before I do that I just wanted to see if anyone had any good advice or has a similar situation or even a good internet source or book. His pediatrician is just wanting to do blood work at this point and not really much help-he is all medical minded.

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M.S.

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You don't mention our "regular" he is. Does he have a BM daily? If you don't know, then start here, our moods/behaivor, etc.. can be greatly affected by whether or not we are regular. Just hang up a chart in the bathroom and have him put a sticker on it each time he goes, so you can see how often. If you already know he is regular, then do you know what it looks like? Sorry - I know this is more info than most of us want! LOL!! Here, I'd be looking at it to make sure it isn't coming out in balls/hard poop, etc.. (signs of constipation). Other than that, dairy is also a good place to start.

Please let us know what you end up finding out!
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S.H.

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Like most Moms, we like to see what may be ailing our child... and look to alternative sources or nutrition. That is good to keep an open mind and many things can cause something.

Meanwhile, your child is having stomach pains regularly, and is aggressive toward his brother. You do not see too much correlation with his diet per the behavior.

Next, have you looked at their social development? Siblings often fight... but if he is this way with others... have you thought about his over all well being and EMOTIONAL happiness or stresses? This can cause mis-behavior. AND, stress can cause stomach aches too. I know...my husband is the same way since he was a child.

Then, since this has been going on for 1 year... that is a LONG time to just sit idle about it and NOT have an "answer" about it yet, or a CONCRETE solution, or a CONCRETE insight about it.

Now, is this a "nutritional" problem? Or, a "behavioral" problem? These are 2 very different issues.

have you spoken to his school (if he goes to school), and asked if this happens at school? What then? Or why?

Next, have you asked your son why he acts this way? Maybe he is lacking something he is not getting at home... many kids act out when they are frustrated or unhappy or stressed, or misunderstood.

The point is, this is all guess-work right now... for the past year.

I would really look into whether or not he is having possible problems at home or school or what not.

So, there can be MANY reasons why. To only concentrate on the nutritional aspects may be limiting your "solution" to this issue. And, blood-work, if this is a medical problem, CAN reveal many things. It is about ruling out possible causes or not.

All the best,
Susan

C.L.

answers from Las Vegas on

I have in fact heard of this... never did much research on milk specifically because we stay away from dairy for other reasons and have switched over to drinking Almond milk about 4 years ago. I have heard about a lack of nutrition and vitamins causing behavioral issues. We are partnered with a Wellness Company that provides a great source of kids multivitamins, I'd be happy to share with you if you are interested.

I just quickly went on the internet and found these links...
http://www.orthomolecular.org/library/articles/webach.shtml
http://www.13.waisays.com/ADHD.htm

C.~
www.ToxicFreeFamily.net

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B.H.

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I am a family wellness coach. If you would like to talk about this a little more indepth, you can contact me. I am not comforatable giving advice without finding out a bit more about the situation.

Barbileee H, B.A.;B.Ed.
Family Wellness Coach

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