C.C.
My son's pack is fantastic. They ALWAYS include siblings in activities. My 4 year old goes to EVERY event. The campouts are for the entire family. Our cubmaster has a 6 month old who goes to meetings and events with the family. Quality time as a family is HUGE and it is something they encourage. I strongly encourage you to give it a shot. Also, I have a friend who is in a pack in Volusia County, and she has a 1 year old and 4 year old daughter who go to everything. She took her baby as a newborn and had a fantastic time. It was a great way for her to bond with her son as well as her younger daughters. There are lots of single moms, moms who have spouses with demanding jobs, etc. I think it is a fantastic organization. It is definitely not an exclusive father-son thing. So if your hubby works odd hours, its no big deal. My husband travels a lot, and we still love it. I wouldn't change a thing.
Give it a shot!!