L.B.
I loved my pacifica. It had my van seating but was not a van. I had kids early and decided I didn't want a van anymore but I wasn't ready to move up to a SUV with the price of gas. Mine had wonderful leather seats which made for easy clean up. I loved the storage in the back. I have 2 full time kido's and my step daughter comes down in the winter and summer. This made it perfect for my family of 4, when they kids had friends over, and when my step-daughter came down. Besides I loved being able to take bikes to the park and or for those big grocery trips. The mileage was great. Most of all the kids loved how comfortable it was.
I havn't had much experience with the others but i am a true chrysler fan. When I decided to go bigger I stepped up the the Chrylser Aspen - I never had any issues with either. Good luck