I have been doing a lot of couponing, but it does not cut down your grocery bill so much on the things on the outer rim of the store. I have a loyalty card at Kroger, and they send me coupons, and lately there have been quite a few for produce and meat. You have to look, but if you do, you can reduce your bill by quite a bit. I spend a long time in the grocery store, and I clip and organize all the coupons of any item that I may use. Then, I go through them before I go into the store, and often, I find things that are not advertised that I have a coupon for, and if I will use it, I buy it, if it is cheap enough.
I use coupons for all of our deoderant and paper prducts, I am not brand loyal to toothpaste or shampoo. I usually don't buy many cleaning products, unless I can get it for free or nearly free. The drug stores are good for this too, you can go through their ads, and walgreens has store coupons, and you can use a manufactureres coupon if you have one, on the same item. Sometimes you will have a buy this, get that for free coupon, and the buy this item will be on sale, and you have a coupon for the buy that item too...that is how I shop. I also take advantage of the coupons that print at the register, often, these are good for dollars off your next purchase.
You do have to organize, and I have a book called the couponizer that I got online, it is really handy because it fits in my purse, and I can always have it with me. I keep things like the Bed Bath and Beyond coupons and the Michaels coupons, because you never know when you might just happen to be there, just today, I took a $5.00 off coupon to Bed Bath and beyond to buy my daughter a birthday present, and the clerk reminded me that I could use my 20% off coupon too, and said to get one out of the sunday paper and come back, but I had it in my purse, so we ended up purchasing a 169.00 ebook reader that had a $30 rebate and a case for it for 19.99 had a $5.00 off coupon, and 20% off, and we ended up getting that for $100! So, you can really score some deals if you just have the coupons with you. It would not make any sense though to buy things that you do not use just because you have a coupon, unless you can get it free and donate it. Sometimes I get things that we do not eat, if I can get them free, to put into food donation basket at church. We don't eat much boxed food like hamburger helper, like not any, but when I can get it for a few cents, I buy it becuse that is one of the things that food pantries give out.
I have watched the extreem coupon show, and those poeople are not buying to eat, they are stocking up, and purchasing the other things that they must eat everyday on another trip. You can't always buy milk with a coupon, but you can buy some healthy items regularly with coupons, like yogurt and cheese. Just last week, I found a deal on four if you purchased yeast, and since those are things I buy and use, this was a good deal, even though it was not free. I happend to have a coupon for yeast, but since I had to buy three, it was still 4 bucks, but I got the flour for 70 cents...so you do have to weigh out what is worth it to you. It is a little bit of work, but certainly not a full time job.
I get my coupons from the paper, and I print them. I "like" my favorite stuff on facebook, or register with them online, and they send them to me. Also, look at your packages in your pantry, you will find quite a few right on the boxes. On Wednesday, many papers run a food section, and you may find coupons too.
Smart source, red plum, coupons.com, couponmom, are all good sites, and I think I saw that if you get the organizer I use (couponizer) you will get some coupons too! I would stay away from one called shopathome...I had that one take over my computer and everytime I hit a link, it would take me to groupon (which I used to like, but sort of don't care for after that!) I would also stay away from the sites that promise coupons and free stuff if you take surveys, just say no to that!
Bottom line is, you are already doing a good thing by cooking things yourself. If you cut the produce, instead of buying pre bagged, and if you bake the bread and make your own pudding instead of buying boxed, it is not only better for you, but is usually cheaper in the long run. Just use the coupons you can, and know that you are already spending less than someone who buys a can of cooked beans instead of cooking them themselves!
I wish you well, you can save a lot, but do not expect to save nearly 100% off your weekly bill. While these people do it for the show, they do not just eat that stuff they can buy like that, they still have to buy things that you almost never get a coupon for!
M.