Could It Cause It???

Wow, slow down a minute girl. J.- I don't know you, but I've seen you post quite regularly and I have even responded to you before. Please don't take offense, but I honestly believe you need to take a step back and look where you are going. You need to take a look at your life, your situation, and what is best for the 2 children you already have.

If you are wanting to get married because of the morality clause in the divorce decree that is one thing. I completely understand that you want to have your daughter with you. Now you're talking about adding another child to the mix? and your diabetic?

Having another child right now with another man could really isolate your children- especially the one who wants to keep living with Dad. Pregnancy can also be very hard on your body physically. If you are diabetic you are just compounding the issue.

I am glad to know that you have already found someone else who is special to you. If he cares about you, then he will understand that you need to slow down. If he loves you now, he'll still love you in a year. Take some time to complete your divorce and let your children heal before you start building another family.

I am not trying to be harsh, but I think maybe you need a little help. If you need to talk you can email me.

Before you think baby, think blood sugar control! Visit your doctor and make sure that your diabetes is well controlled and that your blood sugar is near normal. Find an OB practice or specialist that can guide you through this pregnancy (before you get pregnant) so you can get the best outcome!

I would just check with your doctor (OB) prior to getting pregnant and find out the risks. I don't think it should keep you from getting pregnant. Your age could be a factor. As we get older, we don't always ovulate every month.

Also, it's your life and you know what is best for you. I would delete any "unsolicited" advise below that might hurt your feelings. Your question is clear and it's really nobody's business what else is going on in your life. If you want a baby, then go for it. As long as you and your significant other love each other and are prepared for it then a new baby is always a blessing.

Susan is right about having your sugar under control, if your body isn't in health it wil not be able to sustain the pregnancy and you can run the risk of miscarriage. My friend, who has been diabetic from a teenager, was with the help of her doctor able to have two healthy children in her early thirtys, so the answer to your question is No diabetes (in control) cannot keep you from getting pregnant. So schedule a doctor appointment, get screened and get healthy first. Good luck!

Hey mama! I'm not sure about the diabetes thing... I know that when you do get pregnant, you will probably be considered high risk based on the fact that you rely on medicine to maintain what your body is supposed to do naturally. I would check with your doc, they should be able to fill you in on the procedure for pregnant diabetic women. But before you get any negative feedback about having a baby with your boyfriend and not being married, I say GO FOR IT! You're obviously in a very commited, serious relationship since you are talking about children... so good for you :) Good luck getting preggers!!