When I was younger and newly married I learned to not like cooking because my wife felt it was her job as a wife to do all the cooking.
I started cooking again when she asked for help in the kitchen. Cooking is like playing the piano or putting together a puzzle. Once you understand what you have to do it becomes much easier. Once you get reasonably good at cooking, and the praise comes in, cooking will be much more enjoyable.
As far a learning to cook, go garage sailing to estate sales. When you see they have cook books for sale look through the cook books for smudged and dirty pages. Those are the recipes that family liked the best. Try those.
You probably have friends that cook. Ask them for advice and help. I found a groupon to a cooking school. They teach you how to cook a recipe and them you sit down and eat it. You have a professional chef teaching the class.
I also use allrecipes.com. They have all kinds of recipes and all kinds of videos to show you how to do a recipe. You can ask for kids' favorites or man's favorites or easy crock pot recipes. All recipes has a paid and a free service. I found the free service works fine for me.
If you really want to save money on your grocery bill. Cook from scratch. Example: Kraft mac & cheese is real good. But there are a lot of mac and cheese recipes that don't come in a box that are fantastic that don't cost near as much as the name brand mac and cheese.
Good luck to you and yours.
Here are some of my family's recipes.
I've won several chili cook offs with this recipe.
B.'s Smoked Chicken Chili
1 28 ounce of enchilada sauce (I used hot, red sauce)
1 15 oz can of refried beans
4 15 oz cans of chili flavored beans
4 pounds of chicken leg 1/4's (leg 1/4's work better than breasts)
2 tablespoons of chili powder
1 heaping teaspoon of cayenne pepper
1/4 lb of fresh jalapenos. (canned won't work as well)
I used a 6 qt crock pot turned on high.
Smoke the chicken leg 1/4's. Place them in a pan, with 1/4" of water, on a BBQ grill with mesquite wood for smoke. Cook them over very low heat, until done. Put the chicken leg 1/4's and the water in a container in the frig over night. I put Canadian Chicken Seasoning on my chicken in the grill.
Put all the ingredients in the crock pot, including the water in the pan the chicken cooked in, except the jalapenos, and stir. 5 hours later, remove the leg 1/4's and place on a plate to cool. After the chicken is cool enough to handle, remove the bones and place the meat back in the crock pot, then stir. Stirring breaks up the chunks of meat and makes it go through out the chili.
Cut the tops off the jalapenos. Cut them in half length wise. Use the round end of a spoon to scoop out the seeds and white part that holds the seeds. (The seeds and white membrane makes Jalapenos HOT.) Do the scraping under the water or with a fan blowing the fumes away from you. Dice the pods and add them to the chili 15 to 30 minutes before serving. Enjoy!! (For thicker chili, remove 2 cups of sauce only from the pot when you remove the chicken to debone it.)
I sipped/drank the sauce I removed to make my chili thicker. It was HOT, but delicious.
Here is my wife's butterhorn recipe that has been in the family for at least 4 generations. (Its that good)
Butterhorns
3 1/4 cups flour 1 package dry yeast (1 TBSP)
3/4 teaspoon salt 1/4 cup warm water
1 1/8 cups sugar
3 beaten eggs
1 cup scalded milk
1/2 cup butter 2 Tablespoons melted butter
In a cup add yeast to water. In a pot scald milk; add 1/2 cup butter. In a bowl blend eggs with sugar gradually. Add milk and butter mixture. Add dissolved yeast and flour. Blend in salt. Place dough on a floured board. Knead for 5 minutes until smooth. Shape dough into a ball. Place in a greased bowl. Cover with a cheesecloth. Let stand until twice its size. Remove and knead. Divide dough evenly. Roll each piece into a 3/4 inch thick circle. Cut into pie slices. Brush each piece with melted butter. Roll up from widest end. Place on a greased baking pan 2 to 3 inches apart. Let stand until risen. Bake at 325 degrees for 20 to 25 minutes. Use a toothpick to test for doneness. Remove pan Carefully remove rolls from pan with a metal spatula.
Yields 20-25 rolls.