T.C.
I guess I'm not sure what you are asking. I understand that twins are very hard work. But, wouldn't another baby be such a wonderful gift? I don't think I understand the "acting responsibly" comment. Getting pregnant while in a marriage is not acting irresponsibly. Pregnancy is such a beautiful gift. It's what our bodies do, given the right conditions. Please don't see it as a mishap, but as a blessing. You might be pregnant. But, you might not be. Time will tell. Either way, I pray you will not see it as a bad thing. I would love to be, and have been trying for almost 4 years now. Even what you might consider an accident doesn't always end up with a baby. : )