J.P.
She needs to find a new doctor!!! I have had hypothyroidism, and grave's for 12 years!!! I also have two beautiful children. My daughter I just had 4wks ago was even conceived while on birth control. As long as she takes her meds everyday (even after pregnant), she will be just fine. Both my girls (one 8, and one 4wks) are very healthy and happy girls.
I live in Michigan so I can't help with a Dr., but good luck. Message me anytime if you have any questions about thyroid or grave's, I've heard it all.