how do you know you're not ovulating? i've never heard of a link between autism and clomid... interesting.
i took clomid for all three of my pregnancies. the first time, it took one month, but that resulted in a miscarriage. the second time, it took two mos. and resulted in my now 4 1/2 year old daughter. the third time, it took two mos. and resulted in my now 15 mos. old son.
i have PCOS... and tested with an ovulation test strip every day (super cheap on ebay).
make sure you get a good dr. you should start w/ the lowest dosage of clomid possible (and increase the dosage if you don't ovulate)... and you should only take it for 6 mos. in a row (according to most drs)
no matter what.. it's not easy. good luck!