Christmas Gifts for Sitters

Updated on December 01, 2011
M.D. asks from Washington, DC
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We have a morning sitter that does 615-845 daily for us and a sitter that does ###-###-#### for just our youngest, but full-time for our other two when there is no school.

The one that does the half day and full-time when no school has been our sitter for almost 2 years now and we love her (minus the break and mess we had with a nanny). I was planning to give her one week of salary for Christmas.

Our sitter that does just mornings for us is great with the kids, but because she really makes out on a weekly basis (we pay her for the full 12.5 hours but she hasn't had to work it yet) I was planning on giving her half of a week's salary for Christmas.

Is that okay?

The kids and I will or course also make some things (arts and crafts and cookies) to go along with it, so we can present it in a nice basket.

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So What Happened?

Well - money in the form of gift cards or something. Last year I worked with my main sitter's husband and he said she REALLY wanted to get her hair done but wouldn't spend the money. So we gave her the $ to get her hair colored and cut :).

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J.T.

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I think that sounds fine. Just for reference, we have had the same nanny for years and years and we give her 2 weeks pay plus some kind of gift worth ~$100-$200 or so. But she's full time... We have another nanny who just comes one afternoon a week and I'm going to give her about one "week's" pay plus a ~$100 gift. She only works one part day a week so I'm aiming for the total spend to be more like 2 weeks pay or a little more. In a way she's making out better than the full time nanny as a % of her income from us but I also look at total dollars. The full time nanny's bonus is a lot of money on an absolute basis. The nanny agency told me 2 weeks is fairly typical but it does really vary. So I think you're good but in terms of people saying most people wouldn't even think of a gift, I disagree. I think it's somewhat expected.

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J.F.

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I think that is VERY generous of you and will be much appreciated.

When I tutored, I had a family that gave me $100 in the form of a gift card to a very NICE restaurant. Guess what? We went for my birthday in March and went all out for our dinner (wine, etc.). The gift card didn't work! I spent a ton of money on one meal that I hadn't bugeted for. I posted the question on here whether or not I should say anything to the family. I was told to do so...glad I did. They were so appreciative to know that the money they spent never made it to me. It was resolved with the restaurant, the family, and I over a couple of weeks. (It was the restaurant's fault.)

My advice, give cash. It appears more of a gift than a check (and won't get confused later at tax time). It always works and is AWESOME to receive at the most expensive time of year.

They gave me $100 cash the next two years and boy did I need it at the time. SO GRATEFUL!

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E.C.

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Last year the family that I sit for gave me a candle and an extra days worth of pay. I thought that was so nice of them. I was never expecting that.

V.W.

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Sounds fine to me.

C.M.

answers from St. Louis on

I have never given money to sitters (or daycare center providers) for Christmas but I always give a nice gift. But I have to say it sounds like they will love what you are giving them!!

My children have one sitter now - daughter goes half day to him and son goes all day on Friday (only day of the week they go) and he's getting stuff for his grill because he's a big griller (kabob skewers, grill seasonings and a Christmasty ornament) from the kids.

C.C.

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sounds like a plan too me. ive gotten more of a gift than my partner cause ive worked longer. the partners understand usually very well.

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G.B.

answers from Oklahoma City on

I think that would be a nice gesture. You are really nice to even do a gift. Most people don't even think of things like this.

C.O.

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Rachel:

I think that's great!! VERY sweet of you!!!

When Bob and I went out on Saturday's - we had one of our Tae Kwon Do instructors baby sit and when the boys were in day care - i would do Avon and Bath and Body works lotions in a basket for them...

YOU GO GIRL!!

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