My son is now almost four, but when he was almost one we started with the ear infections. He would finish antibiotics and 1-2 weeks later would be back at the doctors for another round. The ENT told us we HAD to get tubes, but we went a different way. We took our son off of milk and dairy products. Turns out he has a sensitivity to it like a lot of people. Dairy causes your body to produce mucus, but causes excess mucus in people with a sensitivity. This mucus then sits in the ear, nose, throat region and they end up with an ear infection. Two days after we switched my son to fortified rice milk his constant congestion was gone and in the past three years we have had four ear infections. His demeanor even changed. He was his sweet self again. Like you, I was willing to try ANYTHING to keep from having surgery. It doesn't work for everyone, but it did work for us. Today he still drinks rice milk (and loves it), but does eat cheese and he does well with it. You will know within a few days if it will work for you. Good luck and if you want to talk about it in more detail feel free to contact me!