If you know ahead of time what goes into being licensed in your state, that helps give you a baseline. Like what training is required/how often...what sort of safety drills they need to do for fires and storms..preparation, logging of them, etc. What sorts of things are required for ratios, the space used, etc. Most parents have NO idea what a provider goes thru to make the space that a family also lives in, becomes a childcare work space as well. I know for a fact my house is safer than any on my street due to the extra State Fire Marshall inspections, the required fire retardant sheet rock on the underside of my floor (in my crawl space) to get us to the main exits of the home...many providers have to replace windows so they are a specific size, etc. In my state the regulations for things like where plastic baggies, wraps, medications, cleaners and many other things you might not think of are very strict...regular child locks are NOT ok....but magnetic locks are. According to my hubby they are a major PITA to install..but I have them everywhere in my house, so we can still live here as a family.
Other poster complained of a place she visited (and disliked) for not allowing kids to sit on her furniture or have shoes on in the house. I have those same rules, but after all these years I have dedicated daycare space and there is NO adult furniture in the room. I have an "unlicensed" living room upstairs where daycare kids are NOT allowed. It is gated off during the day, as it does not meet the safety standards....again, it is family space, not daycare space. There is nothing wrong with wanting your home clean or some rules followed to keep the wear and tear to a minimum. I do not allow shoes as babies crawl on those surfaces. Need I say more..ish.
Fenced yards, well maintained playground equip that is multi-age appropriate is good to look for. Ask to see sleeping spaces (look for the age of beds, bedding..general shabbiness of all areas and equipment). Remember that if the provider has no infants in care, they may not have any infant furniture out, such as high chairs, exersaucers, jumpers, etc. Personally, I try not to use seats and jumpers any longer than needed and push for mobility. Highchairs take up precious space as well, so when not needed they go into the shed or crawl space around here. So if you don't see, ask about that stuff.
Ask if there if they are on a USDA Food Program. Mine requires I offer one brand of formula (my choice of brand however). If parents use my brand (or wean their child onto that one) it can save them alot of money. Ask what you will have to provide..bottles, nuks, bedding, food. If nursing, are they OK with that (I know many who will not "handle" breastmilk), and what is their preferred handling (I prefer frozen flat bags, brought to me in batches, and I provide bottles once I know what kind is used). Also, will you be bringing them a diaper bag each day filled with supplies? Or do you bring "batches" of things to be left there? This is what I do so parents just have to bring me a child most days. Packs of diapers and several outfits are left here and I buy bottles and supply all food.
You will likely get a good "gut" feeling one way or the other...of the home and spaces used,and of the provider...if shes well spoken and passionate about her work..if she discusses trainings or extended schooling shes done perhaps (I LOVE training and usually have at least 3-4 times what I am required to do and just last May completed my Child Development degree as an old lady student (LOL) with a perfect 4.0 GPA) .....maybe shes involved in an association or local provider group....these are signs of a healthy provider who networks with other providers!
Having good paperwork, organized things in this area..policy book spelling things out, etc. And having paid time off is NOT a bad thing. We work alot of hours each week and need down time too. Some get paid vacations..some just charge a bit more and take unpaid vacation days, etc. We need time to go to our kids conferences and science/art fairs..and to go to the dentist. Its different all over how providers deal with these things. This is our career....our life's work for some of us. We get very few standard benefits and if we are not "healthy", we will not last long caring for several young children.
OK, I am done..LOL. Thats all I have for now...off to feed a baby who woke. Break is over.
Good luck!