K.B.
I am so sorry to hear this. I can only imagine what your family is going through. :( One of the easiest things that you could do is to make food for the family. Especially items that they can freeze. Do you live close to the family? If so, maybe try and set up one night a week where the sibs have dinner at your house. I agree with Tracy M...a lot of times the sibs do get lost inthe shuffle. You can also make little care packages for your neice. Coloring books and crayons, books, comfy jammies, etc. Especially if she's going to be spending a lot of time in the hospital, you want her to have things to do and for her to feel comfortable. Offer to watch the sibs on a weekend so that the parents can have a night out together. I think that you are a wonderful person for offering to help out! Best of luck to you and your family.