M.C.
Hi,
Every kid is different but I would really recommend pushing her bedtime WAY back. Most kids at the age (my son is 21 months) need 12-13 a day, and they will actually get more and more animated and excited the sleepier they are. We moved my son's bedtime to 7pm and he now sleeps solid until 7am and still take a 2 hour nap. Now, you only want to move the bed tiem back in 15 min increments but I really think it will help. I would also recommend waiting on the big kid bed until she is old enough to understand the concept of staying in there until mommy comes to get her. just a thought. My son had TERRIBLE sleeping problems after starting out so well (also sleeping through at a young age) but once he figured out that if he cried we would come and get him - we were in trouble. Our little ones are smart and they know that if they cry we will get them and they can hang out with us. But what they really need is their sleep. I would REALLY consider pushing that bedtime back - studies have shown that kids that go to bed earlier actually sleep longer. I would also not go get her unless you know that she is hurt or sick. She is just crying because she misses you and wants to hang on the couch. :-) good luck.