S.L.
I am sooo sorry!!! I know your soo tired!! This is what I would try to do. If he falls asleep during the day for more than one hour, I would wake him up and play with him.. do everything I could to keep him awake.. If you can manage to do this for a least two nights in a role I think maybe it will help... I know you think he may be tired and you want to give him sleep... but I would (no expert of course) Wake him up, he does need naps during the day, but dont let him sleep for more than an hour or two during his naps.. At nap times have music playing, more lively but NOT too lively than the NIGHT time music, Give him a massage at bed time, For now I would take TWO hours out of the night to get him ready in the mode for Bed Time, Give a bath, sing to him softly, have soft music playing while giving him a bath, Make everything around him soft a peaceful before bedtime, Give a warm night time bottle only! Along with warm ceral.. if he takes that. This will make him sooo sleepy... Also, try laying him down awake but drowsy, this may take a while but the sooner you do it the less likely he will to have sleep trouble.. It WILL Be RUFF, but he will go to sleep.. Also, the book I read was the Baby Wispher, by Sarah Hogg.. Its an EXCELLENT book.
Good luck to you
S.